Known her in the year of 2009, when we both first started studying in Bowen Secondary School as a Secondary 1 student. How do we know each other? Somehow I think through badminton trial. Though we may be classmates, but I don't really know her well as she's the quiet kind. She definitely is. So I don't really know her until we both passed the badminton trial & got in badminton. Slowly, we started talking & going training together. Though we ain't that close at the time, but slowly slowly, we became a little closer but not as close as now. Went training together with my batch which includes Ashly, Christel & MeiLin. Those memories, worth remembering.
Moving on to secondary 2 life. We both got closer as well as MeiLin as three of us are in the same class & same cca. At the same time, there's conflict between three of us. I guess my classmates will know what happen uh. Shan't elaborate on that. So we went sports camp together, we went overseas together. It's our first time going overseas with friends. Went KL, but didn't manage to stay in the same room as her. But it's okay.
Secondary 3 camp? Well, that camp indeed gave us too much to remember. All those marches & cheers we did, worth remembering. In the mid of July, something happened & MeiLin left. Eventually, we got closer & there comes our friendship. We went ChengDu together with the team & yet we're not roommates because Mr Lim purposely separated us as he know the both of us would just talk & not sleep. So he decided to separate us & we slept with our juniors instead. So we had lots of over @ chengdu. Definitely. & it's the first time I celebrated my birthday overseas with my teammates & it's one of the most memorable one. Follow my badminton camp.
Secondary 4? Well, there comes everything. We started bickering & quarreling. We studied really hard together, motivate one another. Went competitions together, sit in the examination hall, taking our national exams together & enjoyed ourselves when exams are over. When exams are over, we're afraid. Afraid that we can't make it for sec 5. So when we both gotten our results, I don't know how to describe though. We're going separate ways & we won't be studying in the same school anymore. I've never thought that we wouldn't graduate together.
2013? There comes everything. When both ain't keeping in contact & misunderstands arise. So what's the reason behind it? Behind my sensitiveness. I've got to admit. I'm someone whom is really sensitive & I will start thinking this & that. We quarreled & I considered that as a rather serious one as compared to others uh. So apparently, lack of communication can also be the reason why friends start quarreling.
Finding friends are easy. But true friends & best friends ain't easy. To me, my bestfriend is someone whom I can really be myself, without being afraid of being judged by him/her, able to tolerate all my nonsense & able to take my sarcasm & nonsense. It's not easy. I've got to admit. It's not easy for anyone out there to tolerate my kind of character, kind of attitude. She's always there for me whenever I need someone to talk to, someone whom I can really entrust my secrets to. We often argue & stuff, but deep down, we know all are jokes. What more can I ask for? I've got my dearest family, true friends & lastly, my best friend. That's enough. Really. I don't ask for more. Thank you for everything I have right now.
Appreciate those around you. Don't take them for granted because one day, you might not know, they might just leave you & by then, it's too late for you to regret. So cherish all your friends & all your loved ones. It's not easy to find true friends / best friends. So please, make an extra effort to build & continue this friendship instead of small arguments, causing it to break your friendships. It's definitely not worth.
Lastly, I love my bestfriend. ❤
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